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Welcome to the Youthline Blog

Posted March 24th, 2009 by admin | 3 Comments

The Youth Line blog is our tool for getting and staying in touch with you. You’ll meet our staff and volunteers, and find out what we’re thinking and talking about. It is also a great way for you to let us know what’s on your mind and what’s going on in your community. We love videos, poetry, storytelling and rants. Think of this as YOUR community of peers, no matter where in Ontario you live. So make it your space! To post, or comment on a post, you have to register with us- you can do that by clicking on the pink ‘register’ link on the top right hand corner of this page. You’ll be asked to create a Word Press account and with that, you can comment and post as much as you’d like. No one will see your information, so you can post without your real name or email address showing up.

Just remember this blog is in the public view and is NOT the way to access our peer service. If you have a question or concern about something personal and want to connect with our volunteers call us at 1 800 268 9688 or email us at askus@youthline.ca and don’t forget we also do instant messenging by adding us to your friends list askus@youthline.ca.

The Disclaimer: The views expressed in this blog are those of the writer only and do not represent the views of Lesbian Gay Bi Trans Youth Line. Youth Line assumes no responsibility for the content of individual blogs.

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Youth Group Spotlight: Rainbow Youth Niagara’s Rainbow Squads

Posted July 26th, 2010 by neowinter | 1 Comment

This month we’re featuring “Rainbow Youth Niagara’s Rainbow Squads” in our Youth Group Spotlight! Thanks to Stephanie Vail, Program Director, for the info!

*Know of a group that you’d like featured? Let us know!*

When: St. Catharines – 3rd Thursday of every Month from 6:30pm-8:00pm
Where: St. Catharines Public Library in the Bankers Meeting Room

When: Niagara Falls – 4th Tuesday of every month starting October 26, 2010
Where: Niagara Falls Public Library – Victoria Avenue in the Conference Room

Check out http://niagarapride.ca/events.htm or ryn@niagarapride.ca for more details on group locations or Rainbow Youth’s program!

Rainbow Youth Niagara is a program that support sexually and gender diverse youth across the Niagara region, aged 14-24 years old. The program has been around since 1997, and actually started out by offering the Rainbow Squads!

The Rainbow Squad is a social and support group for LGBTQ youth aged 14-19 years. The squads are an opportunity for LGBTQ youth to meet other youth, connect, and discuss what is going on in their lives in a safe, supportive environment. The Squads are a drop-in, so no registration is needed, you can just show up.  Oftentimes, discussions are about family, friends, the school environment, and homo/transphobia. Sometimes we even have a guest speaker. The squads are also an opportunity to hear about upcoming Rainbow Youth programming, such as recreational activities and special events (Pride Prom, Annual Pride Picnic, LGBTQ Youth Conference, theatre project). Squads are run by the Program Director and/or trained volunteers.

Rainbow Youth Niagara’s mission is to ensure that LGBTQ youth feel safe and supported when dealing with sexual identity, gender identity, and relationships within the context of their families, communities, and schools.  Rainbow Youth offers individual support, events and recreational activities, special events, support for schools in starting/maintaining a Gay-Straight Alliance Club/Safe School Club, presentations and workshops, and safe space resources.

Check out the Rainbow Youth Niagara’s Rainbow Squads facebook group.

Minority within a minority

Posted July 6th, 2010 by Lindsay | No Comments

I went to Toronto Pride on Sunday with my girlfriend, Priscilla.  It was awesome.  It’s a great feeling to be with people who are just like you and to feel accepted by almost everyone around you.  I say almost because although pride is generally a very inclusive place and experience, there are some people who are still discriminated against.

As we were making our way to the bus, Priscilla and I noticed something.  A white man (probably about 25 years old) say something to two black men about the same age.  I could tell it wasn’t good because of the look on the faces of the black men.  We were walking in the same direction as the white man, so we then overheard a short conversation between the man and his friends.  His friends were telling him not to be so rude, and with that he replied, “just because they’re black, that doesn’t make them people,” implying that black men or simply black people in general are not people.

This was a complete shock.  In this day and at an event that is supposed to provide an atmosphere of acceptance, I was surprised that someone could be so nasty.  Perhaps I’m just naive.

My point is that sometimes there lies within a minority another minority.  This can include trans people within the gay community, or even lesbians in gay media.  It’s something that we should try to eradicate from our community.

We have been making progress.  For the first time since the beginning of Toronto Pride (in 1980), there was a trans booth at the street fair on Sunday.  Also, last year marked the first time there was a trans march at Toronto Pride.



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Youth Group Spotlight: Open Closet in London, ON

Posted June 23rd, 2010 by Aniska Youth Line | No Comments

These folks rock so much we had to create a whole new award for them this year at the Community Youth Awards!

Here are their details:

Open Closet Youth Group

186 King St. West. London ON

Email: dnosella@aidslondon.com for meeting times and more information

Facebook group: http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=40490970427&ref=mf

Open Closet is a youth group for youth between the ages of 14 and 18 years of age who identify as either gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or who may be questioning their sexual orientation. This group has been in existence since early 2002 serving approximately 1100 youth and is one of the more successful queer youth groups in Southwestern Ontario.

Open Closet provides an opportunity to meet and connect with other queer youth in a safe and positive environment, to share experiences and struggles around being young and different in a straight world. They learn and have discussion about issues such as coming out to parents and friends, queer identities, glbt history, survival strategies, accessing community, safer sex, healthy and unhealthy relationships. We also provide access to information about HIV and AIDS, STI’s and provide referrals to community services and resources according to individual needs. Last year, we provided youth with over 160 referrals to such services as counseling, housing and financial supports, STI testing ect.

Goals
Open Closet’s goals are to decrease the isolation that queer teens often face living in a world that still doesn’t fully accept them. We aim to increase their feelings of self worth, to increase the connection to the glbt community, to increase a feeling of pride in their sexual identity, increase their confidence in their future as members of community and we aim to provide them with more knowledge about their rights and choices and increase their knowledge of HIV/AIDS.

* Know of a great queer youth group in Ontario that you think belongs in this section? Let us know!

Ontario needs a project like this!

Posted June 22nd, 2010 by Aniska Youth Line | No Comments

OUT in School’s is a anti-homophobia/anti-transphobia organization that works with schools all over BC to create safer, positive spaces for queer and trans youth. Each year they run a Video Boot Camp, where youth come together to learn about video making and work on ‘Stop the Hate’ videos. You can check out the project and the videos they’ve made here. How cool is that? Would you like to see a program like that run in Ontario?

Youth Line takes it to the streets!

Posted June 21st, 2010 by Aniska Youth Line | No Comments

Saturday was a powerful day! Together with our friends and fellow reproductive justice freedom fighters from Oxfam, Planned Parenthood, Maggies, CFS-Ontario, the Native Youth Sexual Health Network, the Ontario Coalition of Abortion Clinics, and Canadians for Choice (among others), we stood up to demand relevant, accessible sexual health education for youth in Ontario and reproductive justice here and abroad. Here are some of the photos.

All Out! Take a stand for inclusive sex health education and reproductive justice!

Posted June 4th, 2010 by Aniska Youth Line | 2 Comments

On Saturday, June 19th, we invite you to stand up with us for inclusive sex health education in Ontario and reproductive justice at home and abroad. We’re coming together with Planned Parenthood, Oxfam, The Native Youth Sexual Health Network , The Ontario Coalition for Abortion Clinics, Canadians for Choice and GAPP to demand the following:

-The support and implementation for the changes to Ontario’s sex education curriculum
-Full funding for family planning and safe abortion in Canada’s G8 Maternal/Child Health Initiative
-Action on all women’s health inequalities and injustices faced globally

The Youth Line believes firmly in reproductive justice. This means we respect the right of people to make real choices about their sexual and reproductive health and we demand that everyone have access to the information, resources and safety to make decisions are right for them. We’re rallying to defend these rights in light of recent changes that affect all of us locally and internationally and we want you to join us!

As many of you have probably heard about, sex health education in Ontario recently went through some changes. The changes would have meant that queer and trans issues, healthy relationships and other important information that goes beyond just body parts would have been included in elementary and secondary health classrooms. These changes would, among other things, mean that queer and trans folks would finally hear information relevant to their bodies and sexualities in their classrooms across the province. Also, important topics like consent, abuse, assault and what healthy relationships look like would be covered- which is hugely useful and vital information. So, all of us were thrilled when we heard that the new curriculum was moving in a more sex-positive, queer and trans positive direction. And then…(cue scary music) right wing groups protested against the changes and the Ontario government backpedaled and decided to ’shelve’ the sex health part of the curriculum until ‘parents and community groups’ could be consulted. The right wing has been really vocal about why they don’t want the changes to go through- now we need to be just as vocal to show our support of the new curriculum and demand that it gets put into classrooms, as is! So come on out and show that you believe that youth should have access to sex positive, queer and trans positive, relevant sexual health information!

Canada’s  has recently proposed the G8 Maternal/Child Health Initiative. This initiative is calling on all G8 countries to fund a set of health and social programs for  pregnant women and mothers and their children in developing nations. What’s glaringly lacking in this initiative is provision of safe, accessible abortions. Despite huge backlash from women’s groups about this lack, the government is moving forward with this plan. This will have major affects for women around the world.  Not only does it only provide services for cis-gender women who are pregnant and/or already mothers, it denies their right to make active choices about family planning and their own health. We call on you to join us as we stand up for a woman’s right to choose!

If you want to walk with us, or want more information, please email outreach@youthline.ca

Rally Details!

Rally at 1pm at Pitman Hall, Ryerson University 160 Mutual Street.
March to Ministry of Health/Education 900 Bay Street.

Featuring a spoken word performance by RED SLAM and speakers from:
The Native Youth Sexual Health Network
Oxfam
Ontario Coalition for Abortion Clinics
Planned Parenthood Toronto
LGBT Youthline

Sponsored by:
Canadians for Choice – Toronto Action Committee
Gendering Adolescent AIDS Prevention (GAAP)
LGBT Youthline
Native Youth Sexual Health Network
Ontario Coalition for Abortion Clinics
Oxfam
Planned Parenthood Toronto
Sam Gindin Chair

2010 Community Youth Awards Recipients

Posted June 2nd, 2010 by Aniska Youth Line | No Comments

We’re thrilled to announce this year’s Community Youth Awards Recipients! Thanks to all of the nominees and nominators- the Selection Committee was overwhelmed by the incredible work being done by LGBTTIQQ2S youth in Ontario!

Outstanding Contribution to Arts and Culture
Travoy Deer
Toronto, ON

Travoy has worked for the past eight years with Suite Life Arts for Youth, an urban dance studio, where he teaches the art of hip hop dance to youth. His love of dance and teaching led him to found the House of Monroe, Canada’s first voguing house for LGBT black youth.  Since its inception in 2006, The House of Monroe has been awarded numerous trophies for their performances in Buffalo, New York and Baltimore. Under Travoy’s leadership, in 2009 they launched “PlayPen” Canada’s first official Ballroom Event.
Travoy has also contributed to a number of fundraising events lending his creative talent to raise funds for HIV/AIDS support services and relief efforts in Haiti.  Not only has his work been of undeniable artistic merit, it has created safe, creative and welcoming space for Black LGBTQ youth through the community built in The House of Monroe. It is inspiring just how much Travoy’s contribution has added to the cultural fabric of Toronto and how generous of time and spirit he has been in providing real community for so many youth.

Outstanding Personal Achievement
Desiree Rudd-Kerr
Aurora, ON

Desiree has been a vital part of the Toronto People with AIDS Speakers Bureau for 7 years. During this time she has reached hundreds of people with her story, putting a face to youth living with HIV. Through her public speaking, she has also shared her experiences of being a black, bisexual newcomer youth living in homeless shelters. She has worked passionately to correct dangerous myths and misconceptions about HIV/AIDS. By courageously sharing her story, she directly combats the stigma and discrimination associated with HIV/AIDS. Desiree has brought her compelling message to high schools, colleges, universities, churches, service agencies and other organizations. This 26 year old now trains new additions to the Speaker’s Bureau, sharing with them her skills at speaking about lived experiences and infusing those stories with a strong call to action to correct misinformation about the virus and those living with it.

Outstanding Contribution to Community Empowerment
J.Andrew Baker
Barrie, ON

At 26, Andrew acts as a mentor, an educator and a source of hope for youth, service providers and educators across Simcoe County. He has proven his commitment to LGBTTIQQ2S community empowerment through serving and building connections between numerous organizations, including Rainbow Health Ontario, PFLAG, The Simcoe County LGBT Network, the Aboriginal Health Circle, and the AIDS Committee of Simcoe County. By dedicating himself to so many organizations, and serving as a source of support for so many, Andrew links communities together towards a common goal of creating an inclusive service net for queer and trans folks. All of his work with queer and trans youth, and his additional environmental and Aboriginal rights activism reflects kindness, determination and patience as well as a true understanding of the power of communities to create positive change

Outstanding Contribution to Social and Health Services
Hannah-May Wilson
Toronto, ON

24 year old Hannah-May is a young staff member of the Ontario Public Service (OPS) and has become a Positive Space Champion through her role, creating more inclusive workplaces at the OPS and providing information and resources that help OPS staff ground their work in anti-oppressive principles. In addition to this, Hannah-May adds a queer youth voice to the Youth Advisory Committee for a University of Western Ontario research project focusing on sexual health services for youth living with HIV/AIDS and other chronic health conditions. In compliment to her work advocating with policy makers and researchers, she is a very active volunteer with Teens Educating and Confronting Homophobia (T.E.A.C.H), where as a peer facilitator she works with youth to confront and combat homophobia in schools and youth groups across Toronto. Through her vital work on so many fronts, Hannah-May is making space where the issues LGBTTIQQ2S youth face in accessing services are acknowledged and prioritized both now and in the future.

Outstanding Contribution to Social Justice
Onyii Ugebe
Toronto, ON

At 26, Onyii has made a name for herself as a self identified African/Black queer, fat, disabled femme woman, poet, activist and community worker.
She has reached across communities and borders with groups such as METRAC, the Toronto Rape Crisis Centre, The Canadian Mental Health Association, The African Student Association (University of Toronto), Queer Nigeria to name just a few, building connections and investing her own lived experiences in the fight for justice and equity.
Using her art and her passionate voice, she has created innovative programming for marginalized youth communities that unpacks the intersectionality of race, disability, gender, sexuality and immigration.
Her commitment to representation for LGBTTIQQ2S communities that refuses compartmentalization of identities is evidenced in all that she does. In the words of one of her nominators: “Toronto is a better place because of Onyii!”

Outstanding Contribution to Trans Youth Visibility
Alexander Kennedy
Ottawa, ON

Since the age of 15 when he co-founded his high school’s first GSA, Alexander has been doing vitally important work within the queer and trans youth community in Ottawa. Alex has worked with city employees, students, service providers, sexual health educators and members of the police, educating them about the medical, legal and social issues faced by trans people. In addition to this, Alexander works to integrate queer and trans issues into the human rights activism and internal policy work he does with Amnesty International Canada, where he has served on the Board of Directors and the Gender Rights Network and Diversity Taskforce. Alexander received a Volunteer Service Award from the Ministry of Citizenship in 2003 and was short-listed for a Capital Xtra Hero Award in 2007. Overcoming feelings of isolation and an early fear of public speaking, 22 year old Alexander brings an impressive history of results and equally important, inspiration to trans youth.

Outstanding Contribution to Queer Youth Visibility
Jean Yves Benard
Ottawa, ON

Jean Yves has committed himself to bringing the issues of LGBTTIQQ2S youth to the table in Ottawa communities. Through work with organizations such as Camp Ten Oaks, Pink Triangle Services and the Youth Service Bureau, he has consistently highlighted the need for relevant and accessible services for LGBTTIQQ2S youth and pushed service providers to prioritize those needs in areas such as housing, addiction services, poverty eradication, sex work and health services.  He has brought his message of inclusion and visibility to the Governor General of Canada, the Ontario Ministry of Child and Youth Services, youth leaders, service providers, educators and sex worker’s activists groups, pushing for safe and positive spaces for LGBTTIQQ2S youth.
At 25 years old, Jean Yves has left an indelible mark on youth services and spaces in Ottawa and beyond.

Outstanding Contribution in an Academic Environment
Trent Eady
Renfrew, ON

17 year old Trent did with so few have the courage to do in a small town high school- he stood up and made students and staff take notice. In October of 2009, he stood up in front of a school wide assembly and spoke openly about the intolerance faced by queer and trans folks in his school. This was the first time anyone had done so in his school. Trent took it upon himself to address a glaring lack of support and services for LGBTTIQQ2S youth in high schools across Renfrew County and started calling student councils of every school in his board to gather support for a pro-tolerance movement. Using silicon rainbow bracelets, imprinted with “Tolerance, Diversity, Pride” he enlisted students, teachers and staff to display openly their commitment to safer spaces in schools in Renfrew County. In his school alone, 150 students bought and wore those bracelets, and continue to wear them daily.  In January 2010, Trent co-founded his school’s first GSA. Since then, the GSA is spoken at school assemblies and organized a successful Day of Pink. He has also been a great friend to the Youth Line, creating his own posters to increase awareness of our service which he put up in hallways, bathrooms and classrooms around his school. Trent has spearheaded a movement towards safe, accessible spaces for LGBTQ for students across Renfrew County and his actions will echo and inspire others to pick up where he leaves off as he graduates this year.

Honourable Mention
Open Closet Youth Group
London, ON

Open Closet is the only group of its kind in London. For eight years, it has provided safe, accessible space for LGBTTIQQ2S youth to share stories, ask questions and make connections. Since its founding, the group has served over 1500 local youth. Youth members not only find support within the group, but also find a way to give back to the London community by participating in events such as the AIDS Walk for Life, Youth Week, Take Back the Night, and the London Pride Festival. Their success in engaging youth has been recognized by many, and they have been asked to support setting up similar programs in communities outside of London. Even after losing government funding in 2006, the group has remained dedicated to providing space and place for queer and trans youth and has built new a new home at the AIDS Committee of London while searching for secured funding. Open Closet serves as a reminder and shining example of the power and importance of youth directed, safe spaces for the LGBTTIQ2S community.

We’d also like to recognize the following phenomenal nominees for their contribution, passion and dedication to making Ontario a more positive place for LGBTTIQQ2S youth:

Rosa Brooks, Tyler Carson, Blaze Rafferty, Daniel Faranda, Andrea Shine, Spencer Rayner, Felipe Mendes, Rob Salerno, Stas Tikhonov, The Trans Inclusion Group at The Centre for Women and Trans People at UofT, Alex Wells, Nish Israni, Dento Lam, Ricky Rodriguez , Kate Welsh, Zach Witte

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Bill 157: Things you should know

Posted May 28th, 2010 by Aniska Youth Line | No Comments

In February, the Ontario government passed Bill 157: Keeping Our Kids Safe at School Act. There’s a lot of information contained within the bill (which you can learn more about here) but here are the major pieces:

  • It is now mandatory for  teachers, school staff, and administration (principles and vice-principles) to intervene in all forms of bullying, including homophobic and transphobic bullying (you can find out more about what we mean by those terms in our “Homophobic and Transphobic Bullying” section of the blog). That means if you hear homophobic/transphobic language, or are being bullied phyiscally or verbally, and you tell a teacher, administrator or someone else who works at your school, they must take action.
  • If a teacher, administrator or member of the school staff sees or hears homophobic/transphobic bullying, they must intervene. The staff member that witnesses the incident has a few options of how to handle the situation. Their intervention may be telling the person who’s committing the bullying action that their behavior is inappropriate, explaining why and requiring further learning on the part of the person. In other cases, where physical violence is occuring, more serious disciplinary measures may be taken.
  • In all cases, they MUST intervene (unless their safety is at risk) and they must make the principle of your school aware of the incident as soon as possible.
  • All schools are also responsible for making sure all of their staff is trained in how to intervene in cases of homophobia, transphobia, gender based violence, and sexual harassment. Many of your teachers have gotten this training in the past few months.
  • This legislation applies to all elementary and secondary schools in Ontario (Public and Catholic).

It’s important that you, as students, know about this new legislation so you can know what tools you have to make your school safer- so check out the following links (these are intended for teachers, but they contain useful information) and spread the word!

Information from ETFO (Elementary Teachers Federation of Ontario)

Information from OSSTF (Ontario Secondary School Teacher’s Federation)

Coverage: A1 Voices From Generation of Hybrids

Posted May 13th, 2010 by Feiran | No Comments

To be perfectly honest, this Queer Conference has unquestionably exceeded all my expectations. Being one of the first of its kind, the event speakers openly addressed many issues that have usually been ignored and avoided in our society. As an audience, it is easy to see how this conference can be transformative for many people. Taking session A1 as an example, the four speakers each shared their experience of being both a member of the minority group and a “queer”. The difficulties that they faced were phenomenon. However, they were able to be open and true to themselves, celebrate their sexual identity. The speakers provided strength and direction for those who are fighting the same war, the war against homophobia.

Converge 2010

Posted May 5th, 2010 by lea.damata | No Comments

On April, 28, 2010, I attended the Converge Conference at Ursula Franklin Academy.

This conference brought together a diverse student body, to learn about sexuality, from gay, lesbian, bisexual, straight, transsexual, intersex or transgender, through a creative aspect and its’ relation to social justice.  Throughout the day, us, students went through a series of three sessions, from workshops to panels, showing us representation diversity and a sense of shared/equal community from the presenter’s own experiences or creative projects involving sexual, cultural identity.  Before we went to our three sessions, the entire student body was gathered together in an auditorium, where a guest speaker, Trey Anthony (here’s her facebook page for information: http://www.facebook.com/pages/trey-anthony/47959063718) gave a motivational and inspirational speech about her life and struggles as a “Gay, Black, Women” in the entertainment business.  Overall, this experience provided a creative and interesting way to show a sense of belonging, emphasizing that you shouldn’t be marginalized just because of your sexual identity.