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In some families, it would be dangerous to come out. Before you tell your family – or unconsciously allow them to find out – think realistically about the likely consequences. If you still live at home or are supported by your parents and there is a real possibility that you will be physically harmed, kicked out of your house, cut off from financial support, or that your parents would attempt to hospitalize you in a psychiatric institution, it’s much wiser to wait until you are independent before coming out.

 
 
 
  coming out to your family
  testing the waters
  don't come out if you're in danger
  whoops!
  take your time and come from a position of strength
  coming out with consideration
  sensitivity to your parents' feelings
  explain that coming out is an act of love
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