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It’s usually best if you work through some of your own feelings, fears, and concerns before you talk with your parents. If you feel comfortable with who you are, it will help them to become comfortable. You’ll also be better able to hear your parents’ feelings and fears as their own and to remain secure in your own perspective.

Although coming out from a position of strength is generally a good idea, there are exceptions. If your parents are truly understanding, open-minded, and welcoming of diversity, it may be possible to enlist their support as you work toward your own self-acceptance. Ideally, it would be good to have your family’s support all along, even as you share your questions, conflicts, and doubts. If you are lucky enough to have parents like this, take advantage of your good fortune.

 
 
 
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