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Okay, let’s start with something really easy. Let’s call it a “test” just for the hell of it. Let’s begin. If you have ever been called a faggot or dyke put up your hand. If you have every called someone a faggot or dyke, please, raise you hand. If you know some one who has, what your family and friends refer to as a “special friend”, please raise your hand. If you have ever felt that expressing yourself in a way that would make you the happiest isn’t possible or safe, please raise you hand. If you have ever cried because you have felt that you don’t have someone who would understand what you’re going through, please raise your hand. Higher in the back please, we want to make sure we can see everyone. If you have ever felt that your body didn’t suit who you are, put that hand up in the air. If you have every been harassed for trying to modify your body or dressing in clothes that people deem to be the opposite of what you should be wearing, right, hands in the air. If you have ever thought of being physical in a sexual way with a person of a same gender and are afraid to say so, hands up. These questions all stem from how homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia impact our lives and how we feel we can express ourselves.

If you think that homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia sucks, please, stand up! Look around and know that you’re not the only one who had their hand in the air, and you know that you aren’t the only person standing up.

Homophobia/biphobia/transphobia often feels like it can limit who you are and negate your rights to be happy. It can reinforce notions that we are not normal and how we are feeling isn’t legitimate. Going to school, or work, or church, your home, your doctor, your therapist,or hanging out with friends can feel like a the hardest thing in the world when you don’t feel safe because of what your feeling and thinking. It is okay to talk about these things and it is okay to be nervous to do it. The Youth Line is there for those times when you don’t have anyone to talk to, or even just a different voice.

 
 
  spring - summer 2004
 
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